If the bedroom romance is missing, then you should bring it back. Do not lose hopes and keep working towards your relationship. The house is in my name and I pay the mortgage. I have been married for 12 years to my husband and have four kids together. When we are intimate, i pretend enjoying being with him, but my heart aches, and we are finish having sex, i cannot wait for him to move away from me. We believe you can work on becoming a more obedient and submissive wife while ministering to others, but the final answer is only something that you and the Lord can know.
The thought of moving into a big house freaked him out and he said that he needed time to think if he wanted to move as it was a big step. My head is all over the place and I either want to move on or make this work. My own parents who had the deepest love and best marriage I ever witnessed went through these cycles. We were maid of honour and best man. He admitted he is happier now with her. Fine, but it would be interesting to see how many women pull this crap of they knew they would not get the house, kids, or money. Hi everyone, Im 9 year married with my husband.
But, have not been in the same room together for for than a year now. He is a good man. I do love my husband, always have, but I don't think I'm in love with him. He says he is not going anywhere. Finally, 1Peter 3 gives direction to wives, but to understand chapter 3, we must drop back into 1Peter 1 briefly: 1Pet. As he married me i weighed 50 kilos. I will be left poor and with nothing.
I love my kids and want them to have a happy mom again. But I wanted to share some things with you. I dont feel anything when he touch me. We have a beautiful home, and it is our 2nd marriage. Peter ends this section with a wonderful example from the story of Sarah. I know staring at an uncertain future is unsettling and we all crave certainty but you really will have to take this step by step, one day at a time.
So as long as the husband is not asking the wife to sin, then she is to be subject to the husband. I have no idea if there would be any future with me and this guy, or even if that matters in what decision I ultimately make. You talk alot about what she wants but less about what you want? You say you no longer love your husband and want to leave him? Am I insane to stick around hoping things will change or am I just wasting time? I still love her but I am getting tired of her being on chat rooms. I stopped wanting to have sex with him. Sometimes people really do make huge mistakes when they marry, even if at the time they thought it was for the right reasons. But this other guy is still in my heart and i do cry sometimes while listening to a song or remembering wonderful moments we had.
Paul says the wife is to be subject to her own husband. It is like a machine. She would always throw in my face about how she had her first daughter so young and never got to experience being that age and I told her she prob should never have gotten married or had kids, to which she kind of agreed. My husband doesn't know how to be unselfish long enough to redeem our marriage. Yes not much of a relationship! My mom, his mom, all the adults told me to just let him go and experience what he is asking for because he had told me he loved me but wasnt in love and felt bad because i looked at him the way he didnt look at me and it hurt him to even look at me. One night she came home late and we both stayed up ate fast food and had a pretty good conversation.
Have you heard of parent-child dynamics? I also had a neurological disease cause he showed no mercy during my second pregnancy. He never hit me though…the cruelty, to me is all emotional. I guess I just want someone to tell me that I am not being selfish. When I got pregnant, I stayed home because it was cheaper then paying for daycare. If you at all want to stay in this marriage, I suggest that you , to get in the mood, and to see if your husband becomes less repulsive in the face of your increased interest and effort. Spending your energy on these things will help prepare you for the future, whatever that may be. But I believe that emotions — and love — ebb and flow.
Unfortunately it was only abused, and eventually I stopped. This is crazy that I put up with this! He is a creation of her imagination, that isn't seeking to sanctify her, make her holy, redeem her, but a Jesus who is more like a genie in a bottle, giving to her the desire she is craving. I was deeply in love with him. He then decided to go on a high speed chase with the boys in the car; our three year old was not strapped in for some ungodly reason. He wanted to kiss me back in September when we danced.
Dear Clari, you raise very valid point. Anytime I want to talk to her about feelings, she pulls away and starts to talk about separation agreement, custody, etc. Please give me some words if wisdom. We started dating and got engaged within 7 months. I also suggest you get your own therapist to explore the roots of your dissatisfaction and to figure out how to start living the life you want. I am not sure what to do, I feel like she is to far gone, but I continue to try to rationalize and hold hope that we can fix this.